What's happening
Being around other people who use nicotine is a common trigger. The NHS lists being with smokers or seeing others smoke. Smokefree.gov lists seeing someone use a vape.
It helps to decide what you will say before it happens. Smokefree.gov suggests keeping it simple and direct: "No, thanks. I quit."
Support matters. The NHS suggests building a support system with friends who don't smoke. Most people are kinder about it than you expect.
What helps today
- Practise your answer out loud: "No, thanks. I quit."
- Ask friends who vape, use pouches or smoke not to offer and not to use right next to you.
- Spend more time this week with people who don't use nicotine.
- If you need to, step away for a few minutes until the urge passes.